Monday 10 May 2010

Squeeze from a minute and premature baby's finger that said 'I will survive'

When Erin John was born weighing just a pound, her parents steeled themselves for the worst.

The baby and her identical twin were delivered prematurely to save the life of their mother, Kylee, who had developed a potentially fatal condition.

Doctors feared neither girl would survive, but then Erin sent out a message of hope - by curling her tiny hand around her mother's finger and giving it a squeeze.

Mrs John, 26, said: 'It was a remarkable moment. My husband Steven captured it on camera. It was as though she was holding on to me, telling me she wasn't going to let go.'
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Vital sign: Erin grabs her mother's finger

Mrs John discovered she was pregnant in July 2008. But at 23 weeks shewas diagnosed with pre-eclampsia.

She was taken to hospital where the condition developed into the more serious Hellp Syndrome, where the body's organs start shutting down.


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Mrs John, of Bristol, said: 'It was touch and go whether I would survive, so even though I was only 24 weeks pregnant, the doctors decided they had to deliver the twins to save me.'

Erin was delivered first, weighing just 1Ib, followed by her smaller sister Sian at just 10 ounces.

Mrs John said: ‘When I had recovered, I was wheeled down to see the twins and I just couldn’t believe how tiny they both were.

‘Their skin was completely translucent - they just didn’t look like babies at all. The doctors told us right from the start that Sian wasn’t going to survive as she was just too tiny.
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Little fighter: Kylee John with Erin at home

‘They had to resuscitate her straight away, but they didn’t know if Erin would survive either as she only weighed just 1Ib.’

When the twins were six days old they were both christened as the doctors didn’t think they were going to make it as they had taken a turn for the worse.

‘But they both hung on, and just two days later, Erin grabbed her mother’s finger and gave it a squeeze.

Mrs John said: ‘it really gave us hope. We didn’t think that Sian was going to survive, but when Erin touched my finger it was as though she was telling us she was going to be alright.’

Erin had to have an operation when she was six weeks old to close a duct in her heart.
Mrs John said: ‘She was still so tiny and to watch her going down for an operation was just heartbreaking.

‘But we knew it was her only chance of survival. It was nervewracking wait for her to come back up from the operation theatre, but luckily the operation was a success and she pulled through.’

When the twins two months old, tragedy struck. Whilst Erin was gaining strength, her sister started to fade away.

Mrs John said: ‘It was heartbreaking. The doctors told her that it was only machines keeping her alive and there was nothing more they could do for her. Sian slipped away whilst we were by her side.’

Erin carried on gaining strength and she had laser eye surgery in April last year to stop her from going blind as she had been born so early the blood vessels in her eyes hadn’t developed properly.

Then in November last year, 11 months after she was born, she was finally allowed to come home.

Mrs John said: ‘It was wonderful to finally be able to bring her home after all those months in hospital.

‘She is still tiny for her age. She wears clothes for six to nine month old babies and she has to have physiotherapy to help her muscles develop but she is now sitting up, and starting to stand.

‘She has a good appetite and she is catching up now with other babies of her age. We are so proud of her.

‘She is one of the smallest babies ever to survive in Britain and she had a massive battle for survival. But she has come through it all - she may be tiny but she is a real fighter.’

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My son was born prematurely, and I took a similar photo when he was grabbing my little finger. Nearly 7 years later, although he has a couple of phycisal problems, he's all but caught up and we wouldn't have him any other way.

- Mike, Southern UK, 10/5/2010 16:41
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Well Peter the NHS saved mine and Erin's life and they allowed me to spend two special months with my little angel Sian so I am VERY gratful to the NHS for all that they did for me

- Kylee John, Bristol, 10/5/2010 16:32
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MORE Britain's DIE in the care of the NHS than in the Iraq and Afghanistan war!!! MORE people die under NHS care than are killed on roads every year!!! This baby was VERY VERY lucky to survive the Russian Roulette NHS!!!
- Peter, Bromley, 10/5/2010 16:13


Peter, if you use just a spot of common sense you will realise that, yes, while more people die under NHS care it is probably because there are hundreds of thousands more people using the NHS than fighting in Iraq or Afghanistan. With NHS numbers so much higher it makes sense and is not the sensationalist issue you make it out to be.
By the way, when you're ill who do you use? Seeing as I presume you're too good for the likes of the NHS.

- Ariana, London, 10/5/2010 16:27
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peter,bromley. get real!
ive work as nurse midwife and health visitor for past 25yrs. 14 of those yrs as a midwife.
the nhs.....is people like me!!!! who work tirelessly to look after mums like erins and help them survive potentially life threatening conditions like hellp syndrome.ive looked after many women with this condition, and their extremely premature babies would not have had any chance of life without the expertise of the staff....who ARE THE NHS!!!!!.
good luck kylee and erin

- margaret, merseyside, 10/5/2010 16:27
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MORE Britain's DIE in the care of the NHS than in the Iraq and Afghanistan war!!! MORE people die under NHS care than are killed on roads every year!!! This baby was VERY VERY lucky to survive the Russian Roulette NHS!!!

- Peter, Bromley, 10/5/2010 16:13
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Pipster, it may be a relex action but when you are sitting there next to your babies incubator, unable to hold them or comfort them, when you hold there hand and they squeeze it, it gives you a tiny glimmer of hope that if they have the strength to do that they CAN fight to stay alive!! My girls went through so much and even Sian in here short live had to battle through operations! I am so proud of both of them and if I didn't stay strong and concetrate on the good things then i would have never of got through 11 months of Hell!!
Thank you everyone for your coments and if anyone else is going through this at the moment stay strong!! xx

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